Living means you also have to face those sufferings and challenges in life. However, some trials can seriously damage the person emotionally. For example, you lost a person that is very close to your heart. That incident would emotionally scar you and lead you to desolation. When severe loneliness attacks you, battling that is definitely hard. However, hope can still be found after waking up from a morning of despair.
Most the times, a human cannot predict those tragic events that will occur in life. Just like a storm, it brings destruction. Those events can break you into small pieces that sometimes, putting those back together takes years to be fixed. Many happenings could indeed change you either in better or worst manner. When a surgeon got into an accident, causing him to lose his arms, it is really depressing on his part. That example shows coping up after learning that you cannot do things you like to do anymore is not an easy task.
For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.
Experiencing those incidents especially in regular days is not good anymore. You cannot let yourself tolerate those pains that you felt always. Your friends and family are doing their best to help in order for you to function well again. However, you chose not to.
Avoiding everyone so you can just be alone is a way to cope up. However, choosing to remain in that state always would direct you to something worse. You cannot live like that forever. If you wanted to survive on that desolation, help yourself then.
Mostly others would tell you that distractions are effective so you may not think on your problems and be disheartened about it. However, that method is just like escaping from reality. You are not confronting your battle, making you just a coward. Stop pretending you actually are fine.
If your partner broke up with you and your heart ache so much, then feel the pain or perhaps let it out through crying. Accept the fact that you are hurt and do not hold back. Face it and switch your mindset saying you will be okay after this, not on giving up. Feeling it can really help but feeling it more by inflicting yourself with physical pain or doing drugs is not the proper and best thing to do.
Crying forever will not really help. That is why, you also need to stop and think about what is good for yourself. Moving on could absolutely take you long. Nevertheless, you should not hurry yourself with that process like getting another partner to heal fast. No. Take things slowly so you could figure out if your heart is no longer in pain, Once, it happens you may start again.
It takes time and willingness to stand up again. Life is always unfair. The only thing you can do is to fight against the unfair system and not be swallowed by your darkness.
Most the times, a human cannot predict those tragic events that will occur in life. Just like a storm, it brings destruction. Those events can break you into small pieces that sometimes, putting those back together takes years to be fixed. Many happenings could indeed change you either in better or worst manner. When a surgeon got into an accident, causing him to lose his arms, it is really depressing on his part. That example shows coping up after learning that you cannot do things you like to do anymore is not an easy task.
For example, an ace basketball player was involved in a car accident. And his legs were damaged on that incident. As a result, he missed the finals in Nationals and his team was defeated. That will really be devastating and desolating in his part and perhaps that moment will keep on haunting him.
Experiencing those incidents especially in regular days is not good anymore. You cannot let yourself tolerate those pains that you felt always. Your friends and family are doing their best to help in order for you to function well again. However, you chose not to.
Avoiding everyone so you can just be alone is a way to cope up. However, choosing to remain in that state always would direct you to something worse. You cannot live like that forever. If you wanted to survive on that desolation, help yourself then.
Mostly others would tell you that distractions are effective so you may not think on your problems and be disheartened about it. However, that method is just like escaping from reality. You are not confronting your battle, making you just a coward. Stop pretending you actually are fine.
If your partner broke up with you and your heart ache so much, then feel the pain or perhaps let it out through crying. Accept the fact that you are hurt and do not hold back. Face it and switch your mindset saying you will be okay after this, not on giving up. Feeling it can really help but feeling it more by inflicting yourself with physical pain or doing drugs is not the proper and best thing to do.
Crying forever will not really help. That is why, you also need to stop and think about what is good for yourself. Moving on could absolutely take you long. Nevertheless, you should not hurry yourself with that process like getting another partner to heal fast. No. Take things slowly so you could figure out if your heart is no longer in pain, Once, it happens you may start again.
It takes time and willingness to stand up again. Life is always unfair. The only thing you can do is to fight against the unfair system and not be swallowed by your darkness.
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